

Will and I went to the library today. While there we came across the graphic novels. He pulled out a Wolverine book with a menacing pic on the front and refused to put it back until he was done. I talked him through it by answering questions like “is he a bad guy?” and “what’s he doing?” I reminded him none of it was real and I offered to read him a graphic novel with an age appropriate story. But, Will was engrossed. He has had scary things on his mind lately and, he won’t let me leave his line of sight. I hear this question several times a day: “is something scary going to come?”
I am trying out different ways to help him through this fearful and curious time. I’m not sure I did the right thing but I remembered children crave to explore their world. In fact, many say that that is their job. So, I let him explore. He seemed to be in a state of “flow”.
I will watch and see bow today’s exploration affects Will and keep fine tuning this challenge.

a small plush toy that came inside a package of Toblerone chocolates that his grandparents gave us. We pet and hugged and kissed Toby, even Goldie did.