cheaper medical bills. for reals.

Two times in the last week I have heard that it is possible to ask for a discount on medical bills and get it. Wow.

My mom told me she needed some physical therapy to help heal an injury she had this last year. She told me that she intended to negotiate a lower rate. Being self-employed, she does not have health insurance.

Then, yesterday, on my GoogleReader page I saw a link in the “Top Recommendations” section to a site I had been meaning to check out called Baby Cheapskate – Saving Big Bucks On Baby Stuff. It was a link to a blog article called Want Cheaper Medical Bills? Just Ask.

The basics are:

  • Know your insurance policy well so you know what is covered and what is not and how much you have to pay out of pocket.
  • If you don’t have insurance, shop around. See what the going rate is and how different Doctor’s offices compare.
  • Negotiate your price up front.
  • If you pay in cash you are more likely to get an incentive discount.

I recommend clicking on the links in the article that I linked you above so that you can check out further examples and more details on how to accomplish lowering your medical costs, and, you can hear someone else’s story. I found it to be an interesting read even though I have insurance. Although, come to think of it, my insurance will not pay for the hospital stay when I have the baby. Hmm. I should check into a discount. Also, I racked up a $22,000 medical bill for my 3 day hospitalization 2 weeks ago. The claim is still pending so I don’t yet know how much I will have to pay out of pocket.

I just can’t believe how expensive health care is. My eyeballs popped out of my head when I read how much my care cost for managing my pre-term labor. I’m still in disbelief. $22,000?!

Maybe we should move to Sweden. I have some really nice relatives there. I hear Canada is beautiful too.

flowers and birthday greetings

In the last week I received 2 bouquets of flowers!

I received this lovely bouquet of tulips after coming home from the hospital… they were anonymous. Thank you, whoever you are that gave me those beauties!

welcome home tulips

The second, was a wonderful assortment of flowers that Billy brought me for my birthday from our local farmers market. He went to buy us fresh local organic veggies for the week and surprised me with these lovelies:

birthday flowers from Billy

Also, today I got a heck of a lot of birthday and Mother’s Day calls. Thank you all for making my day! I know some talented singers! Well, song or not, you all made my heart sing :D

love,
~Christine

11 year old girl interviews seasoned author Neil Gaiman

I was reading up a bit on Scott McCloud today. He is a comic book artist and theorist.

He went on tour with his family from September 2006 to September 2007 to promote his latest book Making Comics. Toward the end of their tour, his daughters, Winter and Sky, video interviewed author Neil Gaiman. Neil wrote the comic The Sandman, the children’s book (and a movie soon to be released) Coraline, and Stardust (book and movie). Being a long-time fan of Neil’s and having enjoyed Scott’s book Understanding Comics I thought I would have a look. The video was cute and it made me laugh, it even inspired me. I love watching and being around people who are living fully. It was neat to see a playful production and the interplay between an 11 year old girl and Neil. I found it refreshing. You can watch it as well as other interviews done by the McCloud family at Comic Book Resources.

Visual inspiration

Today mine eyes were graced by beautiful visions that I want to share with you. Click on the links within the text to see them:

This picture deepened my breath and relaxed my soul… things I need and crave to help me keep my baby inside. I was actually thinking of taking up meditation to help me but pictures like this might just do the trick.

Mezmerizing: “Prayers“.

Hee hee hee. I love the title of this photo: “Cloning machine”. This photographer, Alex Baranov, has a good eye and is clever.

Wow! This kid is living! (photographer: Jez Coulson)

Last year Billy and I started a photoblog called .:|_HUGIFIED_|:. where we would post one picture each day that was either a macro or a wide-angle shot. He did the wide-angles, I did the macros. I was thinking of starting to post once a day again. The question is: can I find compelling subject matter in the constraints of bed rest? Here is one of my favorites.

Do you have any visual inspirations to share with me?

Mom’s Mini-Home Gym and the iPod Response

The responses to the questions I posed in my “On Mother’s Day, Crafts, Old Habits, Health, and Family” post are in! I wondered:

1) would my mom like an iPod Shuffle?
2) and if so, what color?

It turns out she is really looking forward to getting it and she likes the lavender one. She is softy for pastels.

Along with her response, she sent me a picture of her new mini-gym. She got a stationary bicycle and a mini-trampoline at a garage sale for $40 total. What a deal! They look pretty nice too. Nice work mom!

So, the shuffle has been ordered but its going to take a little while to get to mom. Sigh. Well, something to look forward to.

Update from the Doctor’s office

Today was my first doctor’s visit since I was released from the hospital. It went well. She anticipates that I will make it to about 32 weeks judging by how things are progressing and what a good patient I have been. She did take another fFN. This test is to see what the chances are that I could deliver in the next 7-14 days. I think the results come back early next week.

She gave me a little more leeway in the amount I am able to sit up but, I am still to be conservative. Sitting up really helps when I have indigestion, when writing blog posts and emails, among other things, so I am very thankful!

She taught me how to super dose myself “safely” (meaning without overdosing) with the Nifedipine, or as she calls it “STAT dose” (for more immediate effect). This is for when I have those hours with more than 6 contractions. We don’t want more than six per hour. I tried the STAT does today when I had 8 in one hour. Wow, it sort of messed me up, but it did stop the contractions for a while. When the contractions started again they were less frequent. Ah medicine… you are wondrous and scary.

I believe she said if I make it to week 35 I can have one of their nurse midwives deliver the baby. As it is now, I am under doctor care. I am hopeful that I will make it to midwife delivery status and am even considering continuing my homebirth midwife search as well as figuring out how to fund it. Well, one day at a time. I can tend to get stressed and overwhelmed worrying about all these details and right now, I have to focus on being a good, relaxed incubator for the little guy.

*taking a deep breath*

Behold The Peepee Teepee for the Sprinkling WeeWee

You have to see the Pee-pee Teepee. Click on the link and take a peek.

When I first saw the Pee-pee Teepee about 5 years ago in a schwanky boutique I was amused and impressed. I think this is one of the most amazing inventions for those caring for little boys. Now, I have never used this device but I still think it is very clever as well as very cute. I was excited to be able to put in on the baby registry!

I discovered today that they make other things as well that look beautiful, including their Bamboo Blankets that are naturally wicking, UV protective, and have antibacterial qualities.

I am impressed by this company as a whole. They say: “The soul of our business is the celbration of childhood.” Bravo beba bean!

Birthing Plan & Doulas

I just drafted out a birthing plan using a customizable form on at justmommies.com. It helped in getting my brain storming and asking questions. I have more to learn about all the options and what they mean and what alternatives there are. Then, I have to find out if the doctors will allow my wishes to be carried out. I had interviewed one of the two nurse-midwifes at my OB/GYN’s office last month but I believe that while I am still considered in a “high risk pregnancy” that one of the three doctors at my OB/GYN’s office (whoever is on call that day) will attend the delivery.

I am considering having a doula (labor assistant) present but I have much to learn about that as well. It was suggested to me by Jane Austin, a well respected yoga teacher and child birth educator as well as an ex-doula and ex-midwife, that I hire a doula (labor assistant) if I could not hire my number one preference: a home birth midwife. There has been research that shows having a doula present increases the chances of a healthy birth that has less complications and invasive techniques used like cesarean section, forceps delivery, or episiotomy.